Family Law Is Neither

There is a pernicious evil eating at the core of western civilization.  It is the foundation of nearly all other evils attacking the good people there.  It is the root of moral decay and systemic destruction of the family.  Because of it, folks no longer have an ethical compass and it is chasing men away in search of stability and balance in their lives.

It goes by many names, and has operatives and spies nearly everywhere.  It feeds off the worst aspects of the human character.  It impoverishes people and incarcerates them in a whimsical and nonsensical manner.  It has no regard for truth or justice.  It's sole purpose is to destroy from within.

IT is the so-called Family Law system.  This vile rot is eating out the heart of nations and has completely destroyed millions of lives.

It purports to champion women and children, but it must utterly demonize men to do it.  It empowers the worst aspects of the female personality in order to trample the rights and lives of husbands and fathers.  It entices women by offering 'insurance' that the men will 'pay' for their children and spouses, yet it's primary goal is to imprison the men so that they are prevented from doing what the system says they should.

I have met dozens of men in Asia who have escaped the vicious maw of the Family Law system.  Some have been impoverished by ex-wives and girlfriends who, out of sheer vindictiveness, have taken all that they have worked for and endeavored to build with their lives.

In fact, that is the true goal of the Family Law system.  It is not to protect anyone.  It is designed solely and completely to destroy men and prevent them from achieving their true potential.  By literally stealing all that they have amassed, and continuing to pop up wherever the men go to take their paychecks and throw them in jail if they fail to meet the outrageous judgements against them.

I know of men who are still being hounded by the system though their children are well past majority age.  I know men who have been chased for years for paternity payments, even though they have DNA tests that prove they are not the fathers.  I know men who spend a great deal of time in jail because they can't find work, since they are now ex-cons, and so can't meet the support payments, which lands them back in jail...again and again and again.

I know men who pay outrageous sums of money every month to support children they are forbidden to see.  They are buried under a mountain of restraining orders and other legal rubbish for no reason other than a vindictive female judge and a wicked ex-wife.

Part of the Family Law system is a...how do I put this politely...thing called Child Protective Services (or any of a dozen other equally benign names).  This vile and deleterious organization is nothing more than a band of legal kidnappers and slave traders.

It thrives on a system that pays 'foster parents' to 'care' for children they have kidnapped from the rightful family.  These 'foster parents' care little about the children and many offer horrid and squalid conditions in order to collect the state payments.  The children are tortured and abused in ways that make many of the worst abusers look mild by comparison.

With the children as hostages, the Family Law system can extract any amount of concessions from the natural parents, who are desperately trying to get their children back.  These poor parents become docile drones wiling to do anything to save their children.  It is a horrible and demeaning system that beats down human beings to create emotional basket cases.

Let's take an example of someone I know.  His story is so horrific that he is still recovering nearly 10 years later.  We'll call him Paul.

Paul came home from work one day to find his house completely cleaned out, lock, stock and barrel, and his wife and three children has vanished.  Her cell phone number had been changed, as had the numbers of her friends that he knew.  The only person he could contact was the father-in-law, who railed at Paul for what he had done to the wife.

Paul was mystified, not sure what any of that meant.  On the kitchen counter, he found the case number and contact for a police investigator in the spouse abuse division.  Paul couldn't fathom what was going on.  He had never abused his wife, and in fact had spent years trying to get his wife help for abuse she had suffered at the hands of her mother and step-family.

As it was Friday, Paul had to wait until Monday to contact the investigator.  When he did, he ws informed that the wife had accused him of beating her.  Paul was shocked, to say the least.

At lunch, he went to the police station to talk with the investigator.  He was told the the wife had several serious injuries and had accused Paul of beating her the previous Thursday between 7am and 730am.  Paul wrote out his statement, and when he returned to the office, he collected key card records, computer log-on files, email and phone records which showed conclusively that he was sitting at his desk at the very time she reported being beaten.

The investigation concluded that there was no possible way for Paul to have beaten the wife, and he later found out that she had tried changing her story a couple of times to match what she thought was Paul's testimony.

The wife finally turned up three months later 1,500 miles away in another city.  The children had been taken from her since they were running wild outside a motel where she was prostituting and doing drugs.  She had been kicked out of the shelter system because she was never there taking care of the children.

In the meantime, the oldest child had admitted to the CPS 'case workers' that his mother had been sexually abusing him for some time.  He was 12 years old at the time.

This and other information was presented to a judge in the other state who agreed to release the children to be returned to their home state.  But they were not returned to Paul.  Instead, they were placed into foster care while Paul was thoroughly investigated up one wall and down the other.

The children were repeatedly traumatized by being placed with family members, and then re-kidnapped on several occasions for no apparent reason.  The mother-in-law, afraid that the horrific abuse she and her current husband's family had perpetrated on the wife when she was young, began making dozens of wild accusations.  They were accepted without question despite years worth of psychological records showing the woman to be quite unstable.

The mother-in-law was also placed in charge of the wife, who was at this point facing numerous felony charges.  Despite being in the mother's "loving" care, the wife committed suicide under suspicious circumstances and her body was not discovered for three days.  This followed three previous attempts in the mother's own home.

Meantime, the Family Law system investigated Paul's every breath.  They took his school records, job history, driving record, tax filings...everything public record they could dig up.  They forced him into psycho-therapy and dozens of useless classes and help groups.  He went along with all of it in the desperate hope of getting his children back, who by now had been spirited away to some 'foster' home for months without contact of any kind.

Despite having combed through Paul's life with a fine-tooth comb, they found nothing but a couple of hundred dollars in unpaid taxes from 10 years before.  This didn't stop them from putting him through sheer hell.  They loaded him down with insipid classes and therapy sessions, and dragged him to court once or twice a week for pointless hearings.  They drug tested him and visited his house on a regular basis to see what he was up to.

In the three years that Paul went through this, friends and family had helped him rebuild his home so that the vultures could see that he was prepared to give the children a comfortable and safe place to live.  He had kept the children registered in school in the hopes that they would be home soon.  But it all took a toll.

Paul was fired from his job because he spent more time jumping through hoops than sitting at his desk.  He had already spent more than a quarter million dollars defending himself from nothing, trying to get his children back.  Without a cent and no job, the vultures smelled blood and pounced.

Paul's own sister, a lesbian and a 'social worker,' had taken the children by now.  She saw an opportunity to take the children from Paul, since she was never going to have any by natural means.  She sided with CPS and the Family Law system and finally forced Paul to make a horrible choice: either go to trial without a lawyer and risk losing the children forever, or accept joint custody with his sister.  He would have visitation 'rights' and would have to pay support based on his income from his last job.  He was making well over $100,000/year when he was employed.  They were going to stick him with support payments of $4,000/month...with no job and absolutely no resources left.

Paul saw the writing on the wall.  They were salivating at the prospect of throwing him in jail within months for non-payment.  His only option was to sign away his 'parental rights.'  Mind you, this is all while his children were being held incommunicado, which means he was under about as much duress as a man could be.

Paul signed.

Immediately, his sister got a restraining order and refused to let him see his children.  He bounced around trying to find work and doing freelance projects.  His life was completely wrecked and he was on the verge of becoming a full-blown alcoholic trying to drown the pain and anger he felt.

This is the Family Law system in a nutshell.  It is a horrible, dreadful creature that eats families and destroys lives.  It is the reason I meet so many men here in Asia looking for traditional culture and decent women, and a legal system that still respects family above all.

Until this blight is completely dismantled and relegated to the dust-bin of history, I see little hope for the future of western civilization.  It is eating itself from the inside out.  The Family Law system is a parasite draining the life out of the culture.

Despite the magnitude of this evil, it remains well hidden, because its victims are thoroughly discredited and have no voice to fight back.  The feminist movement has created a beast that eats men's lives with little though for truth and justice.  The Family Law system does not promote equality and fairness.  It is nothing more than using the power of the state to vanquish the family and create mindless sheep.  It has completely undermined thousands of years of balance, tradition and real strength.  And that is its true purpose.

If there is one single cause for the rise in divorce, the plummeting birth rates and the masculinization of women, then the Family Law system is it.  Destroy it and restore sanity to the world.